[mondeomatureguy]

well my first marriage was a just a mess got married when I was young my ex wife had a drinking problem that I didn't know about till after we got married and even our Doctor tried to get her help but she wouldn't do it.

We went our different ways in 2002 but she cleaned me out financially and got the house also.
I did think of hiring a bulldozer for the day and knocking the house down while she was at work but changed my mind I didn't want to go to jail.

I met a lovely women a few years later who was an Accountant and she helped me get back on my feet again financially and we got married and still very happy and we don't argue and she doesn't drink also.